Sex should never be uncomfortable… except maybe in that hilariously awkward way. Even if position A worked for your previous partner, your new S. How their personal taste aligns with yours will determine comfortable or painful sex. This time, just incorporate our enhanced-for-comfort-and-satisfaction sex positions below. The only prep you need to do — and this is true before every kind of penetration with any partner — is communicate and lubricate! Let go of any old memories of those innocent times when somewhat rhythmic up and down was all you knew about sex.
Everyone wants that! Sit in a chair and have your partner put two fingers on either side of your clitoris, scissoring their fingers together while gently licking or sucking the tip of your clit. Not only does this allow for deeper penetration, but you can have them knead or spank your butt for improved orgasm. Bouncing off your partner can create a feeling that some women find to be super intense in a good way, obvs and leaves the external part of your clit exposed and ready to be stroked with a finger or toy, adds Steinberg.
Sex ruts happen to everyone. But if your bedroom routine feels, well, routine —or mundane, or like something you just need to check off your to-do list—then you may need to try a few different sex positions or bring a sex toy into play. Luckily, there are plenty of spicy options.
Our sex positions tool can be used to filter through all positions we have on the site. Use it to find the best positions for just about any encounter. In fact, people have been mixing things up since, well, probably since we started hooking up. However, it was an ancient Hindu text called the Kama Sutra that popularized finding innovative ways to get laid. The Kama Sutra was written between and AD and was published in English in , but it really took off when a version started circulating on the Internet.