It's one of the oldest cliches in the book, that somehow having sex with a man makes you less 'manly' and less attractive to women. But actually the opposite is often true, and society is finally catching on. I'm a bisexual man. I've had sex with men, women and long lasting relationships with both. Personally, I have no preference.
Why ‘Mostly Straight’ Men Are a Distinct Sexual Identity
Sex with bisexual men is better, according to these women
While being bisexual of course doesn't make you automatically good at sex, these women who are mostly bi, but all sex-positive , themselves say they find sex with bi guys much more enjoyable. It's important to note the widely held misconceptions about bisexual people that are rooted in biphobia - that they're more likely to cheat, promiscuous, greedy or just "confused". Bisexual women are often fetishised - mainly by cis, straight guys - and seen as performing their queerness for men. This is, of course, all bullshit. So while these women agree sex with bi men is better for them in their experience, they're by no means saying all bi guys are top shaggers and into experimenting. We just can't generalise like that. He's definitely more open-minded and refreshingly un-squeamish about sex!
And yet, dating a man who identifies as bisexual remains a taboo. But by seeing bisexuality as a deal-breaker, heterosexual women might not only be unwittingly dodging perfectly decent partners, but the best. Research has found that men who are bisexual - and feel comfortable being out - are better in bed - and the relationship develops - more caring long-term partners and fathers. Some women who took part in an Australian study even said they would never be able to go back to dating straight men at all. It turned out that straight men were the ones with more emotional and misogynistic baggage.
W e hear a lot about the Big Three Sexualities — straight, bisexual and gay. Most of us assume that these three orientations encompass the universe of sexual identities. But there is a new kid on the block: The mostly straight male. To the uninitiated, mostly straight may seem paradoxical.